Scott examines phatic communication and anti-inductive systems, exploring their roles in social interactions, job-seeking, and psychotherapy, and suggests the value of balancing both approaches.
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Scott explores the concepts of phatic communication and anti-inductive systems, using examples from small talk, job interviews, and psychotherapy. He explains that phatic communication is talking for the sake of talking, often serving as social grooming or signaling. Anti-inductive systems are those that become more complex once understood. Scott discusses how job-seeking and dating profiles can become anti-inductive as people try to stand out. He then reflects on his experiences in psychotherapy, realizing that sometimes a phatic approach works better than trying to be uniquely insightful. The post concludes by suggesting that people may fall into 'phatic culture' or 'anti-inductive culture', and that learning to appreciate phatic communication can be beneficial in certain situations.
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