Scott Alexander argues that many debates are 'bravery debates' where different groups need opposing advice, making it challenging to target advice effectively. Longer summary

Scott Alexander explores the concept that all debates are essentially 'bravery debates,' where different advice is needed for different groups. He uses several examples to illustrate this point: Ayn Rand's philosophy helping some people overcome excessive self-sacrifice, while others need to be less selfish; atheist memes being helpful for some raised in strict religious environments, while being off-putting to others; and self-help advice that tells some people to be less hard on themselves, while others need to take more responsibility. The post argues that it's difficult to target advice only to those who need it, so debates often involve each side promoting advice that would benefit their own culture or background, unaware that the other side comes from a different context where that advice might be harmful. Shorter summary