The post explores how neurotypical social interactions often involve indirect communication, which can be confusing for autistic individuals, and suggests that conversations may be deliberately designed to be unpredictable. Longer summary

The post discusses the complexity of social interactions, particularly focusing on how neurotypical people often ask indirect questions to initiate conversations or join activities. It explains how this can lead to miscommunication with autistic individuals who may interpret these questions literally. The author explores the concept of 'plausible deniability' in social interactions, where people deliberately skirt the border of incomprehensibility to allow for graceful rejections. The post concludes by suggesting that ordinary conversations might be deliberately designed to be difficult to predict, making them particularly challenging for those who struggle with social cues. Shorter summary