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Sep 05, 2024
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Highlights From The Comments On "Sorry You Feel That Way"

10 min • 1,378 words • 296 comments • 139 likes • podcast (8 min)
Scott discusses various interpretations and uses of 'sorry' in response to comments on his previous article about the phrase 'I'm sorry you feel that way'. Longer summary
This post highlights comments on Scott's previous article about the phrase 'I'm sorry you feel that way'. It explores various perspectives on the use and interpretation of 'sorry', including its etymological roots and cultural shifts in understanding. Scott discusses the challenges of finding alternative phrases, the potential generational gap in interpreting 'sorry', and the concept of 'hyperstitious slur cascade'. He also reflects on the difficulties of crafting socially acceptable alternatives and the nuances of apologizing without admitting fault. Shorter summary
Aug 28, 2024
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In Defense Of "I'm Sorry You Feel That Way"

6 min • 712 words • 663 comments • 527 likes • podcast (5 min)
Scott Alexander argues that 'I'm sorry you feel that way' is a valid and useful phrase in certain situations, despite widespread criticism. Longer summary
Scott Alexander defends the phrase 'I'm sorry you feel that way', often criticized as a fake apology. He argues that in situations where someone is upset by an appropriate action, this phrase is a good middle ground between changing one's mind and being dismissive. Scott suggests that the hostility towards this phrase stems from 'therapy culture', which overfits social norms to benefit oneself in any given situation. He concludes that 'I'm sorry you feel that way' can be a polite and compassionate response when someone is upset by an action you continue to endorse. Shorter summary
Sep 09, 2019
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[Partial Retraction] Age Gaps and Birth Order Effects

5 min • 671 words • 21 comments • podcast (6 min)
Scott Alexander partially retracts and corrects his previous findings on age gaps and birth order effects after errors were identified in his analysis. Longer summary
Scott Alexander partially retracts his previous findings on age gaps and birth order effects. He acknowledges that Bucky, a Less Wrong user, found errors in his analysis of SSC survey data. While the original conclusion about firstborn children being overrepresented in high-openness STEM types remains valid, the specific findings about age gaps were partially incorrect. Scott explains the errors, presents Bucky's corrected analysis, and discusses the implications. He emphasizes the importance of data transparency and encourages readers to double-check his work. Shorter summary
Sep 14, 2013
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Giving and Accepting Apologies

22 min • 3,033 words • 37 comments
Scott Alexander explores the nuances of apologies, their meanings, and societal implications, using personal and political examples to illustrate the complexities involved. Longer summary
Scott Alexander discusses the complexities of giving and accepting apologies, using a personal anecdote from his hospital work and expanding to broader societal implications. He explores three different meanings of 'I'm sorry' and the difficulties in expressing regret without admitting fault. The post delves into the challenges politicians face when apologizing, the potential consequences of different types of apologies, and Scott's personal reflections on his ability to apologize and accept apologies. He concludes by advocating for a more nuanced understanding of apologies and the importance of accepting them in the spirit they are offered. Shorter summary