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Highlights From The Comments On Polyamory

Scott Alexander responds to comments on polyamory, providing data and addressing concerns about relationship satisfaction, child-rearing, and abuse risks in poly relationships.

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Feb 21, 2024 11,021 words 89 likes 428 comments Listen · 57 min Read Read Opened Opened

Love And Liberty

Scott Alexander explores how love embodies libertarian principles and resists regulation, proposing it as a model for libertarian thinking.

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Feb 14, 2024 1,477 words 463 likes 530 comments Listen · 9 min Read Read Opened Opened

You Don't Hate Polyamory, You Hate People Who Write Books

Scott Alexander argues against judging polyamory based on memoirs or advice books, as these are often written by unrepresentative individuals.

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Feb 7, 2024 1,694 words 476 likes 812 comments Listen · 11 min Read Read Opened Opened

Highlights From The Comments On Unpredictable Reward

Scott Alexander explores various commenters' insights on the neuroscience of reward, happiness, and relationships, expanding on his original post about unpredictable rewards.

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Sep 30, 2022 4,682 words 68 likes 31 comments Listen · 38 min Read Read Opened Opened

Unpredictable Reward, Predictable Happiness

Scott examines two types of happiness - one affected by predictability and one that persists - through various examples and neuroscientific concepts.

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Sep 13, 2022 3,488 words 156 likes 234 comments Listen · 26 min Read Read Opened Opened

There's A Time For Everyone

Scott Alexander announces his marriage and reflects on finding love, introducing 'micromarriages' as a motivational concept and exploring the rational and romantic aspects of marriage.

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Jan 12, 2022 2,661 words 672 likes 524 comments Listen · 20 min Read Read Opened Opened

Polyamory Is Not Polygyny

Scott Alexander uses survey data to challenge claims that polyamory leads to a few men monopolizing women, showing these criticisms don't match reality in practice.

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May 17, 2017 968 words 0 likes 791 comments Read Read Opened Opened

Setting The Default

Scott Alexander uses a couples therapy case to explore how cultural defaults influence our judgments on relationship issues, reflecting on the importance of culture wars in shaping societal norms.

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Dec 1, 2015 2,165 words 0 likes 91 comments Read Read Opened Opened

SSC Gives A Wedding Speech

Scott Alexander delivers a wedding speech for Mike and Hannah Blume, blending personal anecdotes, humor, and reflections on the couple's potential impact on future generations.

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Sep 22, 2014 1,580 words 0 likes 69 comments Read Read Opened Opened

Raikoth: Economics, Relationships

The post details the economic and relationship systems of Raikoth, a fictional society designed to optimize for goodness and weirdness.

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May 13, 2013 1,304 words 0 likes 44 comments Read Read Opened Opened

Utility Weight Results

Scott Alexander analyzes the results of his utility and QALY survey, discussing interesting findings and the challenges of utility measurement.

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Apr 30, 2013 1,010 words 0 likes 28 comments Read Read Opened Opened

Polyamory Is Boring

Scott Alexander shares his journey from skepticism to acceptance of polyamory, challenging common misconceptions and describing his personal experiences.

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Apr 6, 2013 2,243 words 0 likes 303 comments Read Read Opened Opened
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